There are women who for some reason are firmly convinced that a man immediately ceases to be a “man” because, for example, he helps his woman cleans the house, takes an active part in raising their common children and even, oh God, what a horror, can cook something for himself or at least heat it up, and does not wait for his wife to come tired from work and poke dinner under his nose. And I honestly don’t even know what could be more masculine than all these manifestations of care and love for his woman, and I can’t even imagine how a man should stop being one because of this, how does it even work? Someone explain to me, please. Because I always naively believed that a man’s “job” in a relationship is to help his partner in everything, support her and “insure” her so that she finally understands, that now you’re not alone and you can no longer carry everything only on your fragile shoulders, isn’t that so or am I missing something? Of course, relationships are a two-way street, that is, both partners need to help each other. And it is not for a man to look for his mother in the person of a woman, but for her to look for a father in the person of her partner. But if a man is afraid of “losing his courage” because he will change his child’s diaper or cook dinner himself while his woman rests from an equally hard day, then I have bad news for such “males” - you have already “lost your balls” “Another interesting point is that for some reason a woman is not afraid of “a man’s work” and “losing her femininity”, sometimes even working two jobs, and then at home on the “second shift”, although maybe she would like to wear a dress and only go for manicures and walks in the park with the children. Therefore, men should not be so afraid of “women’s work” either. In my opinion, this is at least quite fair. I really hope that there will be more and more men like this who understand all this every day. Men for whom it is much more important that their woman feels happy and rested, and not that he just does not lose his “courage” while cleaning up. And now, dear women, I appeal to you: there is no need to force anyone to do anything and drag everything out on yourself, because if your man is brought up in such a way as to “maintain courage” in front of men, who will simply laugh at him if they find out that he helps you with the children and around the house, then turn out the lights, since it will be very difficult to do anything here change, if at all it is still possible, since you have come across too much of a “neglected case”. Therefore, it is better to leave it for those women who also think and are also brought up in those concepts that “it’s only manly to drink beer on the couch after work , and shout at your wife not to relax,” they will really be an “ideal couple.” So pay attention to what your man’s priority is and whether he helps you with pleasure in everything you ask him for even before how you start a family with him, because after creating a family, people don’t change, but simply open up even more, because all their “masks” just fly away. That’s why you need to be one hundred percent sure that your man really likes you he will insure you and “catch” you if something happens and will not let you fall, just like you, of course, will not let him. But this is only possible if everything is done according to one’s own desire and will and nothing else. Take care of each other. Good luck to you! Here you can place an order - my book “PRO love” You can find out more about all my courses here: my courses You can sign up for a consultation with me: here