You are tired of enduring the toxic attitude of men towards you. Your next romance ended, and you understand that the next relationship will be the same. The problem is that you can't imagine your life without a man. You, stupidly, are used to it, and run around in a vicious circle with your eyes closed, like a pony. Nothing in life will change until you take a break. Don't tell yourself “STOP, honey! I don't play this game anymore." You will learn to love life and value yourself without depending on a man. You will not waste your energy on those who do not value it. For the first time in your life, you will live the way only you want. And so, when in a few years you look at your new life, it will be possible, with a clear consciousness and emotions washed away from the patriarchal dung, to answer the question “Do I want a relationship with a man”? 7 steps to loving yourself without needing a man Make a little effort on yourself, give yourself, for starters, a few months of a quiet life, without chasing men, dating sites and other madness. Finally, turn off the female in yourself and begin the path to your feminine nature Step 1. Accept that life without a man can be full and interesting It is important to accept at a conceptual level the following statement “LIFE WITHOUT A MAN CAN BE COMPLETE AND INTERESTING.” Treat this process as an experiment. Ultimately, you have nothing to lose. You can always find the next person farting and throwing socks around the corners. It's time to think about what you really want from life. Try different options. Experiment. Define a clear goal for yourself: What do you want to become? What should you look like? What should you do? What is something in life that you absolutely must try? Think over a plan where you will begin to implement what you have planned. Be sure to write this down! Step 2. Focus on yourself For the first time in your life, try to do only what you like. Go where only you want. Look the way only you want. Do what only you want. It will be difficult if you are not used to it. Phantom pain may begin and you will want to start pointing again. Endure this time. Your task is to do well for yourself, without the hope that someone else will do it for you. Step 3. Do not pay attention to other people's opinions When people see that you live alone and do not suffer from it at all, advice and inappropriate hints will 100% begin. They will tell you that you are going crazy because you live “without a man.” Naturally, trump cards will be used - children, glasses of water and strong shoulders to lean on. Don't think that these arguments have the slightest relation to reality. You didn’t go to a monastery or have your uterus removed. Husbands, children, cats and dogs will be there when you want them. Remember that a sick person can never understand a healthy person. Have compassion for others, but do not try to teach life and argue. Step 4. Live in the present At a new stage of life, learn not to remember past relationships and not dream about future ones. Memories of the past will bring nothing but pain. Remember that your task is to make yourself happy, which means not to hurt yourself. Fantasizing about the future won't make you happy either. When you dream, you will imagine how good it will be tomorrow when you meet “the one,” which means that in the present you feel bad. Learn to appreciate the moment you are in. You have shown the will, you fill yourself with energy. You are well done! Step 5: Stay Connected with Family and Friends Your new life doesn't mean you have to become a crazy loner. It's the other way around. New people will appear in your life. No one will forbid you to communicate with them, or let you “walk” for a couple of hours, like a schoolgirl. You spend exactly as much effort and energy on communicating with friends as you see fit. Family and friends are an incredible resource that should not be underestimated. If you are satisfied with your life, then communication with you will be»