The topic was suggested by Angelika Bogdanova - https://www.b17.ru/blog/fleshmob_esse_na_temu_otnosheniy_v_nashe_v/#c5243356 And suddenly it turned out that this had been “cooking” in my head for a long time!) Communication with different people adds different “colors” and fills the picture in my imagination ...Is it true - are there any relationships between people now? Or have relationships been replaced by communication with various gadgets? It may be difficult to accept such a conclusion - even for me - but it really suggests itself and just pours out its arguments! What associations do you have when analyzing relationships between people at the present time? I’ll try. ..Relationships should be: - easy - it’s just “from every iron”! Don't load it! Don't get it! You are violating personal boundaries! Claims! You are passing the buck! Infantile! - Don’t hang out, but be freely available 24/7! - When he came - then and on time! He fancies himself an Emperor - “Hello, I am the King!”) In fact - well.... it’s good if the Knight (this is it means on a horse and all that...)) And more often - Pazhik... most often parks ... the rod)) Well, we translate the article into 16+.... She fancies herself as the Princess of Cups - “I want to hold her in my arms! ")) In fact - in fact, the Queen (mother)) Seeks material support and comfort - "Hello, daddy! I miss you so much!")) And if about young people at all - fear of communication in real life! How? Where? WHY?!!!)) Even teenage hypersexuality is no longer very hyper... It’s just a matter of beloved bastards, right?) And STDs are not scary again. And close contacts with toxic people are excluded, but on the Internet then - ONCE! And in an emergency! The problem is over. Can you compare this with a really depicted inadequate person (of both sexes) in close proximity? This is how it all looks in my picture of the world (taking into account, of course, many social contacts and experience - professional and everyday). Perhaps you, my dear and beloved readers, have your own ideas and images of real relationships! This is great - we are all different, which means there is more interesting and unknown in the world! Fascinating!) And I still want to add that everything is not so hopeless! Every person - absolutely everyone - in the depths of his Soul is looking for a real Meeting with His Person! Looking for big and pure Love!!! These are Adam and Eve. Not an attractive picture at all, huh? But how much real truth there is in it for a real Man and a real Woman! And what we see is what I described above - it’s all true, yes! But this is she-lu-ha! Shake it and it will crumble... And forward, the most important, the most necessary, the most precious thing will come to the fore - the need for Love and Compassion! Why is this? Somehow I had a question - this is " area" of a midlife crisis somewhere - What is God? For a long time I was looking for the answer to such a seemingly simple question... And I found it - God is Love and Compassion! That's it... While these most basic needs live in people - we are not hopeless!) And there are relationships between people! They cannot but exist! What do you think, my dear and beloved readers? Share your thoughts in the comments! Very interesting!!!