Involuntary observation on the playground, my consciousness captured it in the form of a cause-and-effect model. Teenagers boys, periodically expressing their dissatisfaction with each other (maybe parents offended or others) play ball (apparently football) and suddenly one older one takes aim with all his might and hits a younger boy. The younger one shouts a swear word and runs out of the area. A girl with a ball is watching this process. And at that moment, an offended boy accidentally runs up to this same girl and, tearing it out, lets go of the ball. The ball flies away - the girl cries... the story, I think, continued, but in the head of this girl. The emotionally charged situation focused on her, because turning back for an answer and help (her sister and friends were sitting on the bench), the girl heard only instructions not to cry. The diagnosis is clear: guys will continue to take out their anger on the younger ones, the boy will take relationships with girls lightly, and the girl will withdraw into herself and will have distrust and fear of the opposite sex and fear that in any new relationship she may lose something. From here: according to According to the law of cycles, the situation will necessarily be repeated for everyone, but in a different quality, on a different scale (with age). Therefore, it is important to stop at some point and change the old destructive behavior to a new, creative, and therefore constructive one..