There are many myths surrounding relationships and how to find your person. Men are sometimes afraid of successful women, because “If a woman buys everything for herself, and does not demand from a man, this woman can do everything and you definitely won’t make her tender and weak.” At the same time, women think about men: “There are men who are strong and courageous, like Caesar, and others who are just like Caesar salad...” and here, too, there is something of the truth. In fact, you don’t have to get married if you don’t want to, but most importantly, don’t get married because “that’s the way it should be.” If you want, look for your person, but don’t forget that relationships have many nuances. For example, love is not only fidelity. Everyone thinks that the main thing is not to cheat, but the fact that people can live together as neighbors and in general have been strangers to each other for a long time and they have nothing else in common and nothing to even talk about, this is nothing - “but it doesn’t change” this is a very strange position. So, if you want to find your soul mate, then look not for someone who is perfect, but for someone with whom you are compatible and who does not annoy you in the little things, because it is the little things that make up our life. Your partner should not be your hero and savior, who will save you from yourself and your unfulfillment and will constantly push you to action and encourage you to live more interestingly. Nor should he be a jester who will always entertain you. He is just a person - no more and no less. Yes, you will go through many different life trials together, if you are lucky, you will support each other and not demotivate, you will become best friends and lovers, and only then many years later you will understand that this is what it is your “ideal soul mate,” but it can’t be like that right away. And then you will understand that you were afraid in vain and that marriage really gives you even more freedom, because it gives you peace of mind and joy from the fact that you have found your person with whom you can share both joy and sadness, and this is worth a lot. And you no longer need to go on eternal, grueling dates, waste your energy on a bunch of different people, try to impress, think about whether they will call you back. After all, “a real woman doesn’t agree right away, but a real man doesn’t propose twice” and do what you want with this... But this is all in the past, and now you are learning from each other to be your true selves. Yes, you may not always be happy with everything, but now you learn to be content with what you already have, and not live by the principle “everything is never enough for me.” You don’t go to extremes from the desire to achieve and develop something all the time to the state of simply being a “lazy seal” - you now complement each other, because from the outside it’s better to see which of you is currently lacking what or what exactly is needed for complete happiness. And the main thing is that you no longer blame each other and do not shift responsibility for your happiness to another. Now you are two individuals who consciously chose first yourself, and then each other, that is, to be together and this is wonderful. Take care of each other. Good luck to you! Here you can place an order - my book “PRO love” You can find out more about all my courses here: my courses You can sign up for a consultation with me: here