Complex of the “Madonna and the Whore” The complex is inherent in men: When the love-sexual feeling is divided into two directions: Sexual is directed towards accessible women, lower on the social ladder, maybe somewhat vulgar, flamboyant. And love attraction is directed for women of a higher level, social, cultural, to some extent similar to their mother, it’s not about appearance. All men have the “Madonna and the Whore” complex, it’s just expressed differently. The one who is smarter, matured earlier, has it He built a sexual relationship with this Madonna and this complex is expressed moderately. And someone looked at Madonna for several years from a parallel class, and masturbated to neighbors in the hallway, who were not Madonnas at all, as a result, the complex was recorded as quite powerful. So here’s the main thing The trouble with this complex in such men is that sexual attraction is not directed towards the women they love. Initially, everyone falls in love with a woman, with Madonna, sexual attraction is also directed towards her, but pretty soon sexual attraction is directed towards another. These two feelings are split, there is a division of representatives of the opposite sex into kind, decent, well-mannered “Madonnas” and accessible and sexy “harlots”. And infidelity is not related to the breakdown of the family and the quality of married life. This is one of the answers why they cheat. Men themselves don’t know, they love their wife and don’t leave her all their lives, but... Not everything, not everything! A complex is a certain psychological formation that you don’t realize, but it sits in you head and in a certain category of the case, controls your behavior. Couples who are aware of such a history in their family or girls who notice such a feature in their boyfriend, know: You can work with this complex* 👌 First of all, establish sexual communication with your wife, talk about your preferences and secret fantasies. During consultations, we practice the skill of how to do this. It seems difficult, but it is possible, and sometimes the response from the wife is unexpectedly pleasant; it turns out that she has long wanted to try something, but did not dare to offer it. There is no need to waste time and for a long time decide. It's done - when you do it!