Loneliness is the scourge of humanity. No matter how strange it may be, considering the number of people in the world. At the same time, you need to understand that even if a person admits his loneliness and suffers from it, there is a high probability that he himself is the cause of it. There is a possibility that he is rejecting all possible ways to find loved ones. If a person is ready to make efforts to get out of a state of loneliness, he should be advised on two specific solutions to the problem. The first thing that can be done is to adopt the behavior model of the main character from the movie "Always Say Yes". It may not be so radical, but if a person intends to fight loneliness, he should say “yes” to much of what life offers. First of all, of course, one must learn to see these offers. There are a lot of new opportunities around us. Yes, banal exhibitions, theaters, meetings of interests. All of them, in addition to an interesting pastime, can lead to new acquaintances. The most important thing here is to understand that you need to choose methods that do not depend on the participation of other people. You can go to the exhibition alone and already make new acquaintances there. You can go to the theater alone, or for a walk in the park. Many people try to get out of loneliness by initially setting themselves tasks that cannot be accomplished alone. Women, for example, tired of loneliness, say to themselves: “I need to find a husband.” But since such a message does not contain specific actions that a woman could begin to perform on her own, instead of moving towards a goal, she only aggravates the problem. As a second solution to the problem, we can advise you to stop looking and start living. You just need to start devoting time to your favorite activities, try things that you always don’t have enough time for. And by becoming interesting, first of all, to yourself, you can attract people to you. Here you can remember the same thing “I’ve wanted for a long time, but I kept putting it off.” Maybe there’s been a flyer for the first free English lesson on the mirror in the hallway for a long time? Or has your favorite chef opened a cooking school not far from home? The most important thing to understand is that no one has ever gotten rid of loneliness without changing anything in their life. Sitting endlessly at home or walking down the street with a wandering eye helped no one. Working on your life, adding new colors to it - this is what can attract the right people into our lives. After all, we need to acquire close people, and not just random ones, right??