This happens to almost everyone. Maybe it happened to you. One of women's worst fears in relationships comes true. Betrayal. You give your love and your heart to the person you love. And he does not justify your trust. The people we love can betray us in different ways. Lies, betrayals, broken promises, divorce... The pain from this is unbearable, it breaks us into a thousand small pieces. And you have to put yourself back together again. Learns to live, talk, breathe, love, trust... The wound can be so deep that it will constantly make itself felt. And even the thought of going through this again is unbearable. But life takes its toll. And I want love and new relationships. How to make sure that you are not taken advantage of next time? How to prevent cheating? How can you protect yourself and your heart? First. You have already been through betrayal. Through pain, you have already assembled yourself from pieces and have the experience of unsuccessful relationships behind you. What lesson have you learned from your past relationship? What mistakes did you make? They need to be understood. Don't blame yourself. No. Who is not mistaken? And learn a lesson. And don't repeat these mistakes again. Second. Don't trust him right away. When we are in love, we are in a different reality and the whole world seems beautiful, we see it through rose-colored glasses. And to really understand what kind of person who is with us is possible only after the candy-flower period. Through the rose-colored glasses of falling in love, we often see the ideal person. And there are no ideal people. Therefore, no matter what passionate feelings you have for him, do not trust him right away. Do it gradually. Wait until the fog of falling in love clears and you begin to look at him more realistically. Then you will begin to notice not only its advantages, but also its disadvantages. You will understand that in some things you can trust him, but in others you shouldn’t yet. You can let him choose a bouquet of flowers for you, but you shouldn’t give him your money so that he can invest in his business or take out a mortgage for him. Trust must be realistic and reasonable. Third. Don't trust anyone who is trying to manipulate you. If you constantly hear the phrase from him: “You don’t love me, if you did, you would do things differently.” Be careful - this is manipulation! He is trying to get you to do something by using your feelings. Trying to put pressure on you. Using love as a means of manipulation is very convenient. But loving and being a slave are two different things. Love can come suddenly. And trust still needs to be earned, not begged for. If a person respects and values ​​you, he will understand your feelings, he will not force you to do something that you do not want to do. And his respect for you proves that he is trustworthy. Fourth. And you have a choice - to step towards a new relationship. And there is a chance that they will lead to a wonderful future. Or give up on new relationships altogether. And then you will be alone. Fifth. There is always a risk. In any endeavor and in any relationship there is some risk and the possibility that things will not go as planned. And when you meet your new love, no matter how much the circle dance of a romantic relationship may spin you, remember that there is always a risk that something could go wrong... And yes, by opening your heart to new love, you can become vulnerable to him . Therefore, be careful and take care of yourself. Trust your intuition. Take your time. Let your desires and dreams not prevent you from seeing reality. Accept the fact that love is a risk. But it's worth it. Love and happiness to you! subscribe to my Zen channel If you click on the heart, I will be pleased.