I continue publishing a series of articles on the topic of How to forget your ex. The previous part is here: How to forget your ex-3. ImTT. So, our client who couldn’t get her past love out of her head. She said that the image “doesn’t want to go away.” I asked what is important about his image, what good do you get when you see him? What good will you lose if you throw it away? And she said: love. She sincerely believes, despite all the bad things that the young man did to her, that he still loves her. She can’t believe that he doesn’t love her, something inside her is still sure of this... We began to investigate why we couldn’t forget our ex-boyfriend and were shocked, this is what today’s article will be about. If a person there is too much of a gap between reality and how he perceives it - it’s a shock. Denial, non-acceptance of reality indicates that a person is in a state of shock. During the conversation, the girl said: “It’s hard for me to believe that this person doesn’t love me! I perfectly understand with my logic, with my own head, that he definitely doesn’t need me. I understand perfectly well that Too much time has passed that when they love they don’t act like this! I understand all this very well in my head, but somewhere deep down in my soul it’s as if something inside me doesn’t believe it at all. I still can’t believe it. that he doesn't love me."What's going on here? What do we see? But what we see is not acceptance of reality. A person cannot accept reality. This is a shock. If a person has too much of a gap between reality and how he perceives it, it’s a shock. Denial and non-acceptance of reality indicates that a person is in a state of shock. Any injury is accompanied by shock. Their breakup was so unexpected for her that the girl went into a state of shock, which lasted a very long time, more than six months. And that is why she still cannot accept reality, she is stuck in this state of shock. At the session we did a shock release protocol (it is done similarly to the pain and horror release protocol, only instead of color the feeling of shock is released). An approach developed by Robert Miller called Image Transformation Therapy (ITT) or ImTT (Image Transformation Therapy). I explained to the girl what was happening to her, why she still denies this reality, I said that she needs to let go of the state of shock, release the shock from her mental space, from her body. Shock “seals” feelings, which is why events are remembered so well and emotions even later years persist. And so we began to do the shock release protocol (again, it is done similarly to the pain and horror release protocol, only instead of color the feeling of shock is released) so that she could finally forget her ex-boyfriend. And literally we had released just a little bit when the girl started crying. She said that she was in a lot of pain. She really loved her boyfriend, and when he left her, it was a very big surprise for her (which plunged her into shock), she never expected this, the shock blocked her emotions, at the same time it seemed to imprint them, that she loved him, it froze inside her like a wax statue. Shock prevents the psyche from processing emotions. And the pain that she had at the time of their breakup was not fully experienced due to shock. And that’s why, at the moment the shock was released, the girl began to cry. We immediately switched to the pain release protocol, then continued to work with shock. Towards the end of the session, I asked her a question: “Do you believe that this person still loves you?” To which she laughed sadly and said: “Well, of course not, something inside me finally believed in the truth - he doesn’t love me.” Summarizing the above. If you can’t forget your ex-boyfriend, check with yourself (or your client) the presence of a state of shock.Z.Y. I already wrote an article, but then I saw this: And you know, it seemed to me that the girl from the excerpts also didn’t believe in what was happening. And it's a shock. And you can convince her with thousands of words, but as long as she!