From the author: The material was published in Women's Health magazine July 2013. The author of the text is I.V. Ladanov, editor - Anna Kireeva Even if you just sleep in the same position all the time, first your limbs will begin to go numb, and then insomnia will make you toss and turn. It’s the same in sex – for emotional comfort a person needs updates. And moving the activities from the usual bedroom to the living room, to nature, or wherever your imagination takes you is a good idea. The most difficult thing in its implementation is to choose a suitable site, one that will tickle your nerves and allow you not to worry about the mental health of others. Before you go to the open air, think about how the surroundings of this place will interact with you during sex. Scroll through the situation in your thoughts and test it with passion for viability. And you will probably find that sex on a deserted beach seems very romantic, only until you realize that the cooled sand is not the most pleasant surface, and even sticks to a wet body. In a swimming pool, thanks to the harsh laws of physics, nothing can happen at all, and an elevator is, of course, an exciting place, but you don’t always want to touch its walls. Think about the fact that you need enchanting sex, and not a police report for violating public order - so it’s better to immediately exclude children’s playgrounds, fitting rooms in department stores and the last row of the cinema from the list. The second equally important task in realizing your dream is to push own man for change. This is the rare case when it is best to take advantage of the effect of surprise. It’s enough that you yourself had to cope with a bunch of doubts before deciding to have sex in an unusual place, and a referendum on choosing a site with your loved one, even with a unanimous decision, will kill all the intrigue. But a man will appreciate your supposedly unexpected initiative, because it so flatters his self-esteem: “She couldn’t even hold on there - she wants me so much.” And lastly: it is quite possible that the fulfillment of your long-standing fantasy will not bring the expected joy, and you need to be prepared for this. In essence, a change of scenery is the least effective way to spice up sex, because by shuffling the deck of places, you will not solve internal problems (if any) or gain new feelings. It is more logical to start changing your behavior in sex. For example, learning something new together, removing some restrictions in your intimate life and thereby making each other a little freer.