They asked us a question here: “Is there a law of meanness or is this an excuse for failure?” We answer in detail: There is not a law of meanness, but a law of ideodynamics. Those pictures that we spin inside our heads, in some way are embodied. And this is not some kind of magic or bioenergy - pure psychology. Ideodynamics emerge—this very process of embodying an image from several components. These include ideosensory (sensations as a response to an image: imagine in detail how you chew a slice of lemon - and saliva will begin to appear), ideomotor (movement as a reaction to an image, the well-known fortune-telling with a pendulum is based on this), ideo-emotive (the image evokes emotions) and ideocognitive phenomenon (when an image directs the flow of thoughts). So. It would seem, what is the problem? Sit and imagine that everything will be in chocolate... In fact, if visualizations worked like that, the economy would have collapsed long ago, because everyone would have become millionaires. But the problem is that the notorious pictures are played not only by our conscious mind, but and our unconscious. And there, not only positive images can get stuck like splinters. And we don’t even realize them anymore, but they are also included in the work. How does this happen. Well, for example, like this. The child drops the cup. Or he sews a button crookedly. Or he writes ugly. And one of his relatives: you are always like this! Your hands are like hooks! The child imagines this - it’s a scary picture - he gets scared and quickly pushes it into the unconscious. And she sits there and manages some processes. And every time you need to do something with your hands accurately and accurately, these hook hands will jump somewhere on the edge of consciousness. By and large, it turns out something like this: whichever images are more, they outweigh and determine the result. For some it is pure success, for others it is a half-hearted success, and for others it is in a hurry to invoke the law of meanness or something else as an excuse. Therefore, if you are haunted by failures, think about what kind of strange “magnets” in your psyche attract them. And even better - about how to change the situation. Techniques like EMDR (Google knows) can help you. And please be careful what you say to your children. There is no need to offend them or intimidate them with scary stories - such pictures will do neither you nor them any good. Make sure that there are more bright images in their heads. This is the basis of confidence and many successes.© Alexey and Maria Afanasyev. This text is part of a commercial publication and is protected by copyright law. Any use of the article or its fragment is possible only with the written permission of the copyright holder with mandatory indication of the original source and full name. authors