The fact is that we all live by the rules of projections. In this world we look like in a mirror, and I strongly sympathize with those who do not want to notice this and study it in general. Surely you have already heard that if someone is annoying, then it’s about you. So it is, but how do you like the idea that what admires you is also how you look at yourself in someone else. Only for yourself, what you would like to become. That is, on yourself which already exists as a version of your reality and all you need to do is just act in the same direction as the person you admire. Let's go further into these rules of projection. And then we will move on to comparing children's and adult positions. A child's position is when there is a lack inside, and someone always owes or has not given enough. Eternal lack, both internally emotionally and externally, is often material, loans or dissatisfaction with the material state of things. And an adult is when there is a principle of “everything is enough” and there is a feeling of abundance and wants to give. This is when people do something not out of lack, for the sake of money, for example, but because “I can’t help but do it.” How to move into an adult position and find something you like? Just through this projection. If you are in a childish position, then you expect from other people, your husband, partner, and so on, something like “I should have noticed, otherwise I feel bad and at least asked how I am” or “no one helps at all,” “I wish I could someone came and adjusted my diet and lifestyle”, “yes, I would do something, but everyone devalues ​​it, no support.” Here a person is always waiting for something. And it’s important to look at what. There is usually support, admiration, approval, compliments, attention, safety. And of course you can simply say just start giving it to yourself, but it doesn’t really work. Start giving it to others. To see in others where they need approval, a compliment, so that someone will brighten up loneliness and so on. At first you can try giving it just like that. Well, the next step is to turn it into business. Help those who need it. And here miracles begin to happen. A person begins to approach a fulfilled life in abundance. All you had to do was start giving others what you yourself wanted to receive. But turn it into a profession. So people who do not accept their body become people who work on the bodies of other people so that they begin to enjoy themselves more. This is how they become psychologists; a healer can heal when he is wounded. You can bury your potential for the rest of your life without waiting for someone to fill this lack inside. Or you can start to get out of your childish position now, admit that no one was born to be your rescuer and no one is endowed with anything special that can help you. Only you can begin to help others through your needs. You can sign up for a consultation via private message. Come and we will analyze the scenarios that prevent you from finding what in life will ignite you and lead you forward.