From the author: Please send your reviews and comments on this video to me by e-mail kluchnikov-s@ Share the link to this video with your friends and colleagues. I invite you to my own website Watch my video tips on Youtube You can purchase my programs in the Infovit online store For more than one year I have been trying to start a new life. I buy a diary, write a life plan for the year and try to implement my plan - do exercises in the morning, improve my English, read several dozen smart books, make a leap in my career... I’m rocking slowly, somewhere at the end of January I start doing something, but lasts me no more than a month. By the beginning of March (this is a long-term observation!) I am already head over heels in the bustle.. A little more time passes and I again give up what I started. In the summer, during vacation, history repeats itself. I am already 38 years old, the average age of a Russian, but I think that I have not achieved much. I am very dissatisfied with myself. I showed poor results in life. I think I'm not the only one. I don’t really believe that you can change your life with advice, but still I’m turning to you as a Professional. What can be changed in my life? How to fix it, change it and not slip into the usual routine. How can I make sure that my tomorrow and the day after tomorrow are not like today and yesterday? Oleg, 38 years old, manager ANSWER Hello, Oleg! Your situation, it seems to me, on the one hand, is absolutely unique, because you, like any other person, are absolutely unique in the universe and your problem - the inability to start a new life - manifests itself in you as no one has. But on the other hand, it is very typical, your situation - millions of people are concerned about similar problems. They still want to change and improve something. Other millions don’t even try because they have lost faith that improvement is possible. They sometimes dream, they say, it would be nice if some miracle pulled them out of the hopelessly gray monotonous everyday life. But then they stop even these dreams. If you are not persistent and purposeful, if you do not stop actively searching for yourself and new ways to renew your life, then perhaps over time you will join the number of such people. Therefore, the main and main advice to you is never give up! The miracle of life renewal and the realization of dreams comes only to the stubborn and persistent. Become such a person! But this is not enough. You need to think and reflect on your life. You write that the story of drawing up life plans that never come true has been going on for many years. This means, first of all, one thing: you don’t really like your goals for the occupation that you list or you haven’t been able to fit them into your more global interests. You need to find those goals and causes that you truly value. Take several white sheets of A-4 size paper and write a list of goals in a row that are truly significant to you. Write this list until you feel that you have found some goal or activity, the very thought of which makes your heart beat a little stronger, which inspires you. This could be one, or maybe several activities and goals. Ask yourself, could you start realizing these goals in the new year, 2012? What is preventing you from starting to implement these plans and activities right now and why do you need to postpone their implementation until the future? Imagine as clearly as possible how pleasant the process of your studies is for you. Try to evoke a feeling of pleasure from them, whether it be polishing a foreign language, reading smart books or physical training. You can once again clarify how much you need these or other selected activities and ask yourself, why do you need all this? Find the meaning and explanation for the need for such things. When starting to plan for the next year and trying to squeeze new activities into your daily schedule, you must understand that the new will not just fit into the old framework. You will have to give up something forever. Make a decision once and for all (or at least for a year)