I understand when the reason to say “Sorry, friend, but we are not on the same path” becomes one of those reasons that make up the list of “42 good reasons for breaking up a relationship” , for example: you Scorpios don’t earn much, you’re a typical abuser, you don’t fit into my sexts, you’re ugly... It’s understandable, there are insurmountable obstacles to relationships, and the ability to say “Arivederchi” in time is a gift from God. But how do you understand when they turn you down for some wild and absurd reason? Is this an inability to tell the truth, tact, an attempt to preserve the fine mental organization of another person as normal, or malicious, toxic manipulation that gives rise to another complex in the abandoned person, in addition to all the others? For example, my friend was recently dumped by a girl because he stutters , so she said, “This really infuriates me. When I talk to you, I start to stutter,” what should he do now? At 35 years old, should he go to treatment for his stuttering or next time should he immediately pretend to be mute, or should he always sing, because when he sings, he doesn’t stutter? There are many questions. Here are a few more ridiculous reasons for parting from my collection. Unhappy 1 I was “too nice” to the waitress serving us. Yes, really. Seriously, she accused me of being “fake” because I said “please” and “thank you” and talked to the waitress like a real person. After the meal, when we left, he made a speech about how that she couldn’t date someone so “obviously fake and manipulative.” I was stunned and asked how the hell he came to this conclusion. Because seriously, I had no idea how not to do what I usually do in restaurants. Miserable 2 She said I was too nice a guy because I didn't try to pull her panties down on the first date, so we weren't on the same page. Another time, “we are not on the same path,” I heard precisely because I wanted to do exactly the opposite. Unhappy 3 Because of the car I was driving. I picked her up for a date in a VAZ 2110 Ten, she immediately pouted, but didn’t refuse to drink rolls and Aperol in the cafe. When I drove her home, she said that she almost died of shame while being in my car and that, of course, everything was over between us. Unhappy 4 She said that I was too old. I was 29 and she was 21, which I don't think is a big difference. We got along well and found each other attractive, but that was her answer. About a week later, she started dating - you guessed it - a 29-year-old guy. Unhappy 5 A girl told me that she didn't want to date me because I was too scary. This took me by surprise because we spent the whole night laughing, telling jokes and having a good time. At the end of the night, I told her that if she was free tomorrow, I would take her to the lake and we could go boating. Thinking everything was cool, she said no because she was too scared of me. These are the stories. And for what strange reason did they leave you? CBT 24/7. Effective help for Depression. Divorce. Anxiety.