I truly believe that the greatest luxury a person can afford is the right to live his destiny. I love looking at people up close, it’s fascinating! To be honest, I personally have not yet met a single person who was sufficiently free from other people’s destinies and numerous obligations within himself. This is a very complex and serious topic that cannot be discussed in a few words. After all, I’m not talking about external circumstances and restrictions, and of course, not about external obligations such as obligations of parents, husband, wife, obligations to the country or to the bank for loans. I mean those obligations that a person takes upon himself and which almost never doesn't realize. This huge burden, which most people carry with them for life, is felt by people mainly as fatigue, anger at themselves and the world, and a reluctance to give attention, love and care even to those who are close and dear. And most importantly, a person cannot explain to himself why he does this over and over again, why he finds himself in circumstances that are unnecessary to him and cannot do anything about it. Having quite a lot of experience in systemic arrangements and spiritual developments, I can say from the personal knowledge of my and my colleagues: each person in a given life is connected with several of his departed relatives and people with whom these relatives were also connected. In memory of them, unconsciously loving these people whom a person may not personally know at all, he, as it were, partially lives their lives, replacing his own. These are completely unconscious processes. And when I do work for people who are far from all this “spiritual stuff”, their eyes simply “fall out” of surprise. They are shocked because I don’t tell them this, but they will experience this discovery themselves through their own body and their own sensations. Of course, this mechanism is not completely clear to me. What is clear is that when you immerse a person in the feeling of his own soul, where only two feelings reign - always peace and always love, within a few minutes the person comes to understand that all these vicissitudes in fate he once chose himself (once - this seems to be before birth). And only then comes agreement with fate and joy from the experience gained as from an interesting game that he himself started. And only after this can the soul agree not to follow the fate of one of the relatives, but to turn around and look at its own fate. And then freedom comes! There are many such interweavings, and you have to deal with each one separately. And it is not a fact that for some reason the soul is ready to agree. Sometimes this takes a long time because our soul is in no hurry. This is how bad luck in love, money, health, and everywhere is resolved! We call them “family spells.” But what happiness a person experiences when he has at least partially received his freedom - the right to live his own destiny! He can now do something for himself, and not just for others, as he did this year after year. And only by satiating yourself with real life for yourself, does the resource appear to give something to your family and children with all your heart (and not because you have to, or everyone in our family is caring), to work with full dedication and pleasure (and not because it’s in your family). everyone is a workaholic, or not working is a sin). Therefore, I believe that living your destiny is an amazing luxury that you cannot earn, cannot beg, cannot be bought for any money, cannot be stolen, and cannot be earned. These are things of a spiritual order, and I know very few ways in which you can get a different, freer and happier future for yourself..