If you are in a one-sided relationship, then you alone always initiate all your conversations, meetings and correspondence. You are the only one who always makes an effort and tries to find time for your partner, while he does not do the same for you, but simply calmly takes you and your love for granted...If you are in a one-sided relationship, then you are the only one who always makes some sacrifices, looks for compromises and thinks about how to do it so that everyone feels good and, first of all, your loved one. But in this relationship he thinks exclusively only about himself and his own interests, needs and desires. If you are in a one-sided relationship, then only you want to make some plans for the future and think about how they can be brought to life. This is while your partner is not thinking about it at all. He simply diligently avoids all these conversations, because in fact he understands well that he does not see you in his future. After all, he simply does not want to offend you, and even more does not want to lose the comfort and coziness that you create for him every day. Therefore, he simply lives “here and now”, and there - “time will tell”... If you are in a one-sided relationship, then only you always say: “I love you” and in response, at best, you can hear: “Me too " or "Me too", and at worst - "That's good" or generally just silence, because your partner doesn't want to hurt you, but he doesn't want to lie either, because it's really very hard... So he just waits until you will understand everything yourself and save him from the need to explain something to you, thereby relieving him of any responsibility for it. If you are in a one-sided relationship, then only you always apologize for everything and try to smooth out all conflict situations, even if in some way In this case, it was not you who were wrong, but your partner. If you are in a one-sided relationship, then only you are always worried, caring and thinking about your partner and how else you can please him with something. While such thoughts regarding you never even occur to him. If you are in a one-sided relationship, then you always justify his behavior and the fact that he again did not keep his promise, again forgot about you, because “he has so much work” and that’s why he simply “didn’t find” at least a little of his precious time for you. And you forgive him again and give him, probably for the tenth time in a row, another “second chance”, convincing yourself that he still loves you, he just doesn’t know how to show it to you correctly. But maybe stop deceiving yourself already and live in a world of your own illusions? Maybe it’s time to finally admit that they simply don’t love you, but stay with you only because it’s so banal that it’s convenient, that’s all. Yes, I know that it hurts, that it’s offensive and unpleasant, but it’s still better than wasting your life on a “mis-relationship” with a person who essentially needs you at all. Therefore, I think it’s time for you to finally pluck up courage and just face the truth and all your fears straight in the eye, and then move on... To something better and truly real. Good luck to you! If the article was useful and interesting for you, do not forget to click “thank you” and also subscribe so as not to miss my new articles) Sincerely, your psychologist, Victoria Kirsta