Humans are social creatures. This is a long-known fact. This has both a huge number of advantages: collectivism, cohesion, communication and relationship development, and a huge number of disadvantages. And one downside is the topic of my article today: dependence on the opinions of others. There are so many who would like to live the same wonderful life that successful success conveys to us. Enjoy your holiday in the Bahamas, enjoying your third citrusy-sweet glass of Aperol Spritz. And there are even more of those who limit themselves in choosing a better, more comfortable life for themselves. These people are driven by fear. Fear of rejection, fear of condemnation and reproach, you might think. Undoubtedly, this also takes place. However, today we will talk about something else. Fear of showing up. The fear of not being like everyone else has been ingrained in our blood since the generations of our mothers and grandmothers, because in the Soviet Union the attitude “merge with the crowd, otherwise you are an outcast” was one of the first and true ones. People are afraid of their identity to this day because in the past they had to adapt to government policies. However, now the state structure has completely changed. Not only the country, but the world as a whole has turned upside down. And now, in order to reach a new level, you need to broadcast your self into society in as large a volume as possible with as much intensity as possible. And now, as promised, I will give you a technique on how to stop thinking about the opinions of others. Place your hand in front of you and imagine that other people's opinions are leaves. The thumb, index, ring and little fingers are leaves. And the middle finger is a stone. Now, imagine that the wind has blown, you can even blow it yourself. And now you see the following picture: the leaves have blown away, and only the stone remains - the middle finger.) The technique has a humorous and entertaining form, so that you understand how shaky the opinion of others is. In contrast to the stone - as a symbol of a solid, rebellious support within oneself. Which cannot be broken or destroyed. People have always talked, talk, and will talk. Regardless of what kind of life you live. And remember: kindness must be selective.) Is my article close? Don't forget to like and leave comments. They help in promoting the article. Let's make as many people as possible independent of the majority opinion :) Sign up for a consultation + 7 (917) - 484 - 42 - 06 or telegram @ekaterinapsy1 Very soon I will cancel the free introductory consultation, so while there are still windows, write and sign up :) My Instagram* @katerin__savina* Instagram belongs to Meta, which is recognized as an extremist organization in Russia.