Today I would like to share an incident that I witnessed. There were several such cases during my vacation. This touched me and I decided to write. I sit down in the Olympic Park for an attraction. The mother next to me sits her 10-year-old child, smiles and says: “Don’t be afraid, you can scream!” And sits down in her chosen place, away from the child. The attraction has gained momentum. I look at the child, and he turned pale, blue, practically not breathing, looks at me with frightened eyes and asks: “Are we going to stop soon?” It turns out that the child is afraid of heights, and his mother “trains” him not to be afraid. During fear, internal tension increases due to the fact that a person stops breathing and freezes. And this, like a snowball, increases fear, so a person can bring himself to shock. I see that with each circle, the child is twisting more and more, his arms are straining more and more and clinging to the handrails. I understand that he needs help, otherwise he could end up in shock. To help the child cope with his fear, I began to teach him to breathe out his fear, to free himself from internal tension. Without experience, it is difficult to breathe deeply when fear has completely taken over your body. But we continued to breathe together. By the end of the trip, he calmed down and a smile appeared on his face. When we descended to the ground, the child looked into my eyes and said: “Thank you!” Mom ran up and said that she liked everything, did not even look into the eyes of her child, in whose eyes there was still fear. I'm glad that I could be useful for this baby. Dear parents, fear doesn’t just appear. Fear is our assistant, which helps us evolve. Help your child deal with his fear. Don't teach in battle, it can end sadly. In addition, at the moment the child does not receive any pleasure, but rather prays and thinks that everything will end quickly. Start talking to your children about their feelings, emotions, experiences, weaknesses, and what they are trying to hide from you in order to meet your expectations. This is possible for those parents who have coped with their fears. Those who failed, when communicating with children, they will make you angry and irritate you. This is a sign that you have not dealt with your inner fears. And, if you do not move in your evolution, then your children will be forced to stagnate. Since the hierarchy is like this - we are first, they are behind us! And we, parents, are responsible for what we fill our children with. And of course we are not talking about houses, apartments, cars, clothes - NO! It's about what feelings and emotions we fill ourselves and our children with. The health and success of your children depends only on this! If you have any questions when communicating with children, write, I will answer, you will receive a free written consultation. What situations have you encountered in your life? Perhaps you were helpful? Share in PM or comments. Act clearly - live happily!