I want to write this article on just such a day. It is different for everyone, but I want it to be filled only with warm emotions and spring mood, the beginning of something new and joyful. And not only this day, definitely 365 days a year. If we want changes in relationships with our partner, child, loved one, we should not wait and, moreover, demand these changes. This is a very familiar, but vicious circle. But it’s definitely worth asking yourself a conscious question: “How should I be/manifest/ in these relationships so that they become fulfilling, light, trusting, warm?” And answer yourself in detail, in detail. And then put it into practice! There are no guarantees that the other person will change, but we are designed in such a way that we mirror what is happening around us, “playing the same tune.” And then, when what we create around us is permeated with care, warmth and sincere attitude, the chances of holistic changes from another loved one are very high! Important! If we begin to express ourselves in a certain way only in order to get the desired changes on all fronts, we will fail and the relationship will really only change in the other direction. We all feel manipulation very subtly and unconditionally do not want to deal with it, and subsequently move away from what this enterprise started. But if we begin the path to changing our habits holistically, clearly realizing that we act out of love - our manifestations, namely, reactions, words, intonations, etc. will be imbued with sincerity. And this is also impossible not to notice. Or rather, we feel it literally at the level of sensations. In this situation, we have a much greater chance of becoming happy, feeling calm inside and, most importantly, being healthy! And if you want to know how this happens at the level of our neurophysiology and why we are so subtly We feel manipulated, why we change in response to sincere concern, write in the comments. Happy Holidays, dear girls! Let the feeling of authorship in your life be 365 days a year. Create your masterpieces, small and large, fill every day with warmth and love for yourself, loved ones, people! Rejoice and rejoice!