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In the first part, which I recommend starting with, we talked about the fact that, as experience has shown, it is faster, easier and more effective to solve your problems together with someone else than even alone an experienced psychologist. As Larisa Bandura wrote in one of her articles on our website: next to a specialist, the problem will be resolved faster and more efficiently and will be presented in the head in a more multifaceted, voluminous way, which in turn gives several options (choices) for solving the problem. And choice, as we know, makes a person free, even if he is in a difficult life situation. Even if a psychologist has some difficulty in his life, then this is his complexity in his life, and not the complexity of the client. I will say again (see part 1) that a psychologist has his knowledge, his experience, his professionalism and the help of colleagues who will have a decisive influence in helping the client in his difficult situation. The psychologist can and even often should turn to another a psychologist not only in cases when he wants to get to know himself better or understand his problems, but also when he works with clients. This can be important and useful, so to speak, from the point of view of prevention: “Do I see the client’s situation correctly? Am I even dealing with the same problem or is the problem something else? Am I choosing the right tactics and strategy when working with this person? and so on.". It always helps to get a professional outside perspective. It is even recommended to apply for supervision when the psychologist is absolutely sure of what he is doing. Suddenly, just in this case, he doesn’t notice something, and perhaps his somewhat excessive self-confidence lets him down. There are also difficult cases when even the most advanced psychologists may not fully understand something. understand the current situation, and in order to be more effective in their work, they are forced to seek advice from colleagues. I would like to additionally emphasize that asking for help, as discussed in the first and in this second part, does not at all mean that the psychologist does not understand himself or does not know how to work with clients well enough if he asks for help. He understands himself and his difficult situations, and knows how to work with clients. Only with support can this be done faster and more efficiently. Yes, and somehow it’s often more pleasant and joyful to do all this with someone, rather than alone. And as they say in a proverb familiar to everyone: One head is good, but two are better. And also, if a psychologist, or any other person, seeks help in a situation where he cannot quickly cope on his own, it only speaks of his “elaboration”, about that he can accept help, can admit his imperfections and not be ashamed, not be afraid of it, can lean on another person and accept his support. This, of course, is a valuable resource both for the psychologist himself and for the one who turns to him for help. After all, in this case the psychologist becomes not only more effective in his work, but can also share with the client his ability to accept help. It's great that we are not alone and can get support when the need arises!

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