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From the author: Fairytale therapy is truly a fabulous help for parents! You can solve many problems, and do it gently and calmly. Showing love and respect for your child - so small, but already a PERSON. I bring to your attention a therapeutic fairy tale written for a 5-year-old child. At the reception, his mother called him a “young aggressor.” Of course, any problem of a child is a problem of his environment, his family. But it is not always possible to carry out therapy with all family members, and the little person desperately needs help. Yes, working with a symptom is ineffective, because the problem is systemic. And you need to eliminate the cause, not the symptom. But how can you refuse help to a tortured woman with sad eyes who is confused and looking for a way out? Who really loves her child? Unfortunately, Vova’s father and mother cannot find a common language in matters of education. The situation in the family is unstable and difficult, and the baby reacts to it in his own way. Making the situation in the family even more bitter. So, the problem: little Vova fights and bites. A charming child with soft fluffy hair and an attentive gaze, it turns out, knows how to fly into a rage instantly, for any little reason. Didn't they give you candy? Throw the cup at the wall. Wearing the wrong boots? Mom with a fist. Have you turned off the cartoon? I bite my mother’s hand (or whatever I reached for). Explanations are not effective, physical punishment, thank God, is not allowed in the family. Vova is not liked in the kindergarten, the parents of other children submitted a request for his transfer, but Vova stayed. At the same time, the situation with his peers gradually improved, Vova became calmer. But at home everything remains the same. Mom spends the most time with her son, and she also becomes the main object of attacks and aggressive outbursts. When I started writing this fairy tale, I set myself the following tasks: Explain to the child what is happening to him. Give him the opportunity to look at himself from the outside, evaluate his behavior. Give him confidence that despite his character traits, he is wonderful. And beloved. Both parents. Teach them to accept their dark side, their anger and show that aggression is common to all people. Find an internal resource and give the child an action algorithm - show how to cope with the problem. Vova really loves “Black Lightning”, it’s a character from the cartoon “ How to Train Your Dragon." The character is positive and endowed with many positive qualities. But, like Vova, he has problems with communication - people see him as a pugnacious predator. In fact, this dragon has a faithful and devoted heart, just like Vova. The font highlights the main thing, what should be highlighted by intonation when telling a fairy tale. A fairy tale about a little dragon In one distant valley lived a family of dragons: father, mother and son. Mom and dad loved the little dragon very much, called him affectionate names, kissed him goodnight, and he grew up healthy and strong. The little dragon was no longer quite a baby. He had already begun to grow up, and although he had not yet tried to fly, he already knew how to release small streams of fire and smoke. He had sharp teeth and real strong claws. He was very strong, agile and fast, like a little lightning. He had cheerful friends, a warm home and many interesting toys. Everything was fine with him, but there was something in his life that gave him trouble. All dragons, both big and small, get very hot when they get angry. They growl and breathe fire. And even their armored skin becomes so hot that it resembles a boiling kettle! If you touch them at this moment, you can get very badly burned! Therefore, adult dragons, when angry, often fly into the sky to cool down and not burn anyone. But the little dragon did not yet know how to fly, and besides, he had one peculiarity - the scales on his skin heated up not just quickly, but downright instantly! And because of this, he sometimes got into trouble. Sometimes the little dragon even liked the fact that he could catch fire so quickly. Because when he does/

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