This problem is familiar to many women, unfortunately. Every morning you hopefully fly to the bathroom to see those long-awaited 2 lines, or you run to test your hCG level in the blood, or maybe you just measure your basal temperature every day to catch ovulation, but everything is in vain. Often, infertility occurs in completely healthy people married couples. In this case, we are talking about psychological infertility. Psychological infertility indicates that a woman has subconscious fears that block pregnancy. I will list the most common psychological reasons that prevent conception: Fear of loss. It may appear in connection with the loss of a significant loved one, or in connection with the death of a child among close relatives. Very often, this fear is present in women who have suffered a frozen pregnancy in the past. Low self-esteem. Such women are not confident in themselves, in their strengths, capabilities, and consider themselves a bad sexual partner. Punishing yourself for bad deeds. A woman may subconsciously punish herself for her wrong behavior. This could be abortions, meetings with married men, etc... Lack of sexual desire. Some women believe that it is shameful to have sex, that sex is only needed for conception, but conception is possible only on the days of ovulation, that is, once a month. Rape. Constant stress is a serious factor in psychological infertility. Problems at work, difficulties in communication lead to emotional and physical exhaustion. In our modern world, where stress, tension, anxiety, depression constantly live, it is necessary to carry out psychological preparation for conception. Do not lose hope, you must always believe in yourself, in your possibilities. After all, you can try to remove these blocks, and pregnancy is about to happen. The main thing is your strong desire to give birth and raise your child. The fact is that people still do not understand that psychological reasons take place in the occurrence of this disease. And instead of searching for these reasons, women delve into their bodies, go to doctors, and undergo constant tests. Do you know that ovulation can be absent due to tension, anxiety, stress????? If yes, then why, instead of resting, do you start taking special pills???? Why do something so radical right away, without trying otherwise. And ask yourself the question: why do you want to give birth? Why do you need a child? Many women who cannot give birth to a child for a long time speak threateningly about those who lead the wrong lifestyle. Like, “they give birth like cats.” They give birth because they have no fears, they are not afraid of anything, and they don’t think about anything. If you are “fixated” on pregnancy, you need to stop constantly thinking about it, being distracted by something else. It happens that married couples, despairing of having a child, end up adopting a baby from an orphanage, and suddenly give birth to their own. Having realized that a child is not only diapers and ironing, but also happiness, the woman’s body agrees to pregnancy. You can also try to get a pet. Psychological infertility is a problem for a couple and it is better to solve it together, through the efforts of both partners. If a man is not ready for children, then he should wait. If a woman is not ready to wait, then she needs to set priorities. There are special psychological techniques for pregnancy. Autotraining. Self-hypnosis Visualization And finally, I’ll tell you one case from practice. The woman waited 10 years for her pregnancy. There was a flight of 4 IVFs. It turned out only for 5 IVFs. A girl was born. The family was so happy, the woman even looked younger, became more active, cheerful, and cheerful. I became more sociable and my circle of friends expanded. Many fears disappeared and anxiety decreased. The sex life of the spouses has improved. Result: 6 months after the birth of the girl, she finds out that she is PREGNANT again!!!! Naturally. Can you imagine what happiness this is? The second child is a boy. All children are healthy. Dear girls, believe in.