From the author: The article was published on the website Valentine's Day is the perfect time to turn the vector in relationships from misunderstandings and claims to love and recognition. Why is this so important? Because in everyday life we ​​often begin to take care, fulfillment of responsibilities, help for granted, and we begin to react more and focus on our partner’s mistakes and negative aspects of the relationship. We unconsciously collect a list of complaints against our partner and, based on it, build relationships. All this contributes to the emptying of the couple’s emotional account. How can you fill a relationship with love? Keeping a gratitude diary In this diary, it is important to write down what good your partner has done, for which you are grateful. In this diary you can record all your partner’s actions, from the banal - taking out the trash - to some really important actions for you - being there at a difficult moment in your life. Note that if it seems to you that your partner is not doing anything in the present tense, then you can start your journal with notes about past actions for which you are grateful. Move from the past to the present and do not skimp on gratitude, because it is very important to maintain a positive image of your partner and it is no less important for our other half to receive a positive reaction to your actions. Letters of love Write love letters to each other at least once a year Take an envelope and beautifully, with decorate it with love. This will be a package for your message to your loved one. Get alone, remember the positive moments of your relationship, look through the photos, fill yourself with warm feelings, then take a beautiful piece of paper and write a letter of love. In this letter, tell us when you feel love for your partner, what you especially love about him, what events you have in common you especially value the past... Spit out all your tenderness, all your love onto paper. Please note that in these letters there is no place for criticism or reproaches. Letters of love can become your new family tradition. Attention box Take an ordinary box and decorate it so that the appearance talked about what you will store in it. After all, there will be very important content here - attention to the positive sides of the partner. On small colorful pieces of paper (designed as you please) write what you love and value in your partner. Write everything you want, everything you feel good for your loved one. This box of attention can be a gift on Valentine’s Day, and it will also come in handy in those moments when you feel that the positive image of your partner is fading in your mind. Take a note out of the box at random and try to pay attention to the quality of your partner written in it, how he shows this quality in everyday life, concentrate on the good in your partner, on what you love about him. Chronicle of happy moments Highlight for yourself and your memories for several hours without being interrupted. Take photos and a new album. Choose photos that, in your opinion, remind you of happy moments of the past for both of you, reflect your love, and convey the energy of tenderness and happiness. Place these photographs in an album, you can also paste some notes, notes (about how you were at that moment, what you love in this past), you can decorate the pages of the chronicle to your taste. A chronicle of happy moments is an excellent contribution on your couple's emotional account. Truly, Valentine's Day promotes romance and creativity, so share your ideas and discoveries on how to fill your relationship with love in the comments. Happy Valentine's Day! Love and be loved! And remember, the most important thing in our life is love, in all its manifestations.