I am again taking you into the forest of taboo topics, and this time the request in the group was related to sex. For us, as leaders, this is an indicator of trust and cohesion of the group. The three main neuroses of modern man are sex, money, and death. And I'm glad that we can discuss this openly. While maintaining the rules of confidentiality, I will try to tell you what this group was about. For many, a series of recent events have become a test of their love life. Shocks are affecting all our spheres. Sexy as well. Unfortunately, it is so uncommon to discuss sexuality that it becomes a challenge for many couples. Our desires may not coincide in time, form and implementation. When this happens, most often we close ourselves off and discussing feelings and emotions in contact is painful and unpleasant for us. By avoiding this, we fall deeper into vulnerability and distance ourselves from each other. A partner can turn from a loved one into a person who does not understand and does not support us in one of our most intimate topics. By choosing the path of not discussing, pretending that nothing happened, not reacting, we plunge even further into our own negative experiences. They are often associated with self-esteem and Self-Image. The way out of the impasse is the recognition of the fact that desires may not coincide and this is normal. In response to this, you may experience a wave of feelings. And that's okay too. If you stay in contact and honestly admit your feelings, it will be scary, but this will lead to a resolution of the situation. You will find out how the partner feels on the other end of the phone and will be able to find a compromise and agreement that will satisfy everyone. God! You would know how hard I tried to describe what happened in the group for three hours and fit it into something coherent and understandable. I think you should try it once and find out for yourself. Join our online group. You can see a little more information on my page. Due to specially established rules - confidentiality, non-violence, non-judgment, a safe space is created to explore your feelings and reactions. Your inner world becomes clear and visible to you through reflections in other people. You gain the courage and desire to change old, insecure, destructive patterns of behavior into new ones that will bring you joy and satisfaction. Irwin Yalom calls this a dress rehearsal for life. That is, what you cannot afford to do in real life, you can safely try in group therapy, and then transfer it to real life.