HOW TO RAISING A NARCISSIST? RUBRIC: psychological humor🔎1. Intervene in all the child’s games from childhood, tell him how to play better, how to play correctly. Let him learn that just a game without rules and results is some kind of stupidity. 🔎2. Love for achievements. Show your affection for a reason, but only for something that is correct from your point of view. 🔎3. Consider your child’s successes as an extension of yourself and your own success. Boast about them as if you were yourself. 🔎4. If something didn’t work out for you in childhood, you wanted to dance, but it didn’t work out, you didn’t have time to learn English, go to Cambridge - put it on your child. Let him realize it all now. And if not, don't forget to show him how upset you are. 🔎5. Admire how the child behaves more mature than his age and devalue everything childish about him. Why does he need this incomprehensible lisp, let him immediately learn to be an adult. 🔎6. Notice more successful children with him. For example, if he got a B, ask: “What did Daniil get?”, and flash disappointment in your eyes that, oh, you’re not the first. 🔎7. Demonstrate that grades at school are something mega-important, on which your attitude towards your child, and most importantly, the attitude of all people towards him, will depend. A “good grade” is in every sense a guarantee of all the blessings of this world. 🔎8. Prefer your children to something more interesting (smartphone, adults), if the child fails to behave with you in a sufficiently interesting and equal manner. After all, communicating with fulmars is something boring and ineffective. 🔎9. Don’t forget to remind him in different variations that he is in danger of missing out on something in this world if he doesn’t hurry up. "You have opportunities that we didn't have!" or “You can’t help but do what we want from you, we give you SUCH opportunities!” 🔎10. Envy the youth, sexuality, success and capabilities of your own children. 🔎11. Blame your child for procrastination. Race in circles. Raise him to be an ideal successful person who can do everything. Do not leave free time for empty activities and doing nothing. 🔎12. The child should be busy with things that are useful and will be useful to him in the future. No computer games! No spontaneous useless hobbies. Sign up to work with narcissistic personality disorder and study child-parent relationships [https://www.b17.ru/savenkova/#contact]