Women love to talk. That's how we are cut out. When a man hears the notorious “Let’s talk” from his beloved lips, he is sincerely perplexed. Well, how much can you say! And so everything is clear. And he will reluctantly squeeze out: “Well, go ahead, speak.” In such cases, the man takes the position of listener, while the woman pronounces a monologue. And if a man is silent, it means he agrees with everything that was said. Is not it so? It turns out that not always, far from always, a man agrees. And it turns out that this is completely unexpected. What is mutual understanding? This is when he understands her, and she understands him. This is understandable. Without communication there is no mutual understanding. And communication between the sexes is an ambiguous and often contradictory process, because we are different, different. It is believed that all these discussions, emotional expressions of feelings, are all the privilege of ladies. The man is determined to think about the problem and resolve it. A man speaks with the goal of achieving a goal. A woman speaks to share emotions and impressions, just to switch gears. If at the moment your man’s head is not busy solving global problems, he will condescendingly listen to your sweet chirping with or without reason. This is just so you don't get offended. If there is nothing to decide, soon the chatter will begin to tire you and then irritate you. And if his head is full of problems to solve, and here you are chatting, then even the monologue begins to infuriate. The man flees into himself. The woman is unpleasant, offended, sad. They want to get rid of her, which means she is not loved and not needed. After all, they say that a woman loves with her ears. If they don’t talk to her, it means they reject her. A man behaves differently. He turns on the TV or picks up a newspaper. By letting in extraneous information, a man thus switches and, as a result, rests. And somehow we must learn to combine these completely different switching processes in order to avoid quarrels and disagreements. Despite the fact that we are very different, we have something very common. These are feelings. We love each other, we want to be together. Relationships cannot last long on passion alone. It is necessary to understand each other, respect the differences and characteristics of the partner. only this can guarantee a happy family life. Achieving this is easy and difficult at the same time. It seems that the recipe for happiness is simple: be able to listen and respect other opinions. After all, you listen to your comrade, your boss, politely and sympathetically. This is an elementary culture of communication. And at the initial stage of a relationship, trying to make a good impression, you are attentive and patient. But then you relax, calm down and allow yourself liberties such as inattention and impatience to the characteristics of your partner. We lose the desire to listen and hear. This is how conflicts begin. But love is not the imposition of one’s own, it is the acceptance of someone else’s. It is difficult to achieve understanding, but it is possible if you move towards each other.