Who has not had debts in our lives... Some are in them temporarily, some always... Some are a little stuck, and some are up to their ears ... We know what debts are firsthand. We have experienced this burden first hand. We pay debts with our time, sweat, blood, life... Debt comes from the word “long”. And for a long time, it’s a long time... Maybe a whole life... Rarely does anyone have debts for bread or for underpants (unless they are covered in Swarovski crystals). We take out so-called “show-offs” for debt. What is a show off? I can explain. These are those things and services that, in our opinion, will give us weight in the eyes of others. Advertising from all sides broadcasts - “You deserve it!” And worthy and wealth are words with the same root... You, yes, yes, you personally have such wealth that you bought the car you drive, the house you live in, a “cool” phone, a branded “outfit” and at the same time don’t pay off loans, don’t eat chirac and aren’t afraid of bailiffs in case of your incapacity? If yes, then everything is true - you are worthy! You own things that are “adequate” to you, and therefore worth it. And if not, it means you borrowed something that you “cannot afford” so that others would think that you are more worthy than you are... With everyone, By acquiring something on credit, you rise in the eyes of others completely unreasonably. This is not very good, because you are practically deceiving people... But the main problem is that you rise in your own eyes. You begin to feel important, successful and worthy without being one. Why would you tell a successful, worthy person to try too hard? He has the right to rest, because he is already successful and worthy... But it’s him, not you... You have neither wealth, nor dignity, nor success, nor the right to rest. You have show-offs and debts. You don't belong to yourself. Debt automatically made you a slave to the one to whom you are in debt. Interesting moment! On the outside he is a worthy, self-sufficient person, but in essence and in his way of life he is a slave. You exchanged your time, and therefore part of your life, for a “phony” image that will fade and cease to please you long before you pay off your debts. Someone can afford to look for a more interesting job, but this is not you - you are a slave, you must pay off the debt. Someone can afford to rest, but it’s not you - you are a slave, you have to pay off the debt. Someone can simply drop everything and hitchhike around the world - but again, this is not you... You are a slave. Rough? Perhaps... But it's true. You get used to being a slave. It becomes your way of thinking and living. Having worked off one debt, you immediately sell yourself for the next... This circle is difficult to break. You always want more than you can afford. So what’s wrong, you say. I’ll work it all out later! This is the way of thinking of a slave... This is very convenient for your masters. You are always on the hook. Both you and your property purchased on credit. We all understand that in order to have something, you will have to work in any case. But earning and working are two different things. To-work means to give, to-work means to receive for work. Is it possible to earn better? See what you can earn? Create a certain wealth for yourself and gain dignity. Moreover, the concept of your personal wealth will develop by itself when you understand what you are capable of and learn to set priorities. What is more important to you? The ability to sleep until lunch or eat caviar for breakfast? Traveling the world or a “cool car”? A mansion with 20 windows (which need to be washed periodically) and a plot of land (which needs to be improved) or the opportunity to study, travel, communicate and walk while living in a cozy apartment? You will understand everything yourself. But only when you make every purchase with funds that you have already earned. When you know the value of every ruble lying in your pocket (or every million lying in your safe). Freedom from debt is the most luxurious luxury, compared to all the luxuries of the world! To understand and accept this, you need to have both intelligence and dignity, and inner strength...It’s not you again? Very sad...A/