Women who deal with the topic of infertility are completely different, the psychological component of this problem is very large, some manage to overcome it, for others it is a real pain and getting closer to the answer can begin various types of avoidance. When working with infertility, different specialists will use their tricks and various tricks, practically tasks to create a blissful state in a woman awaiting pregnancy. This euphonious title is much more pleasant and attractive than a woman with infertility. While still expecting pregnancy, you can already open your arms to your baby; perhaps the key to your cherished desire lies in your ability to give happiness to others. Every such woman talks about how, while expecting a baby, she mentally makes purchases in the store, watches how other mothers buy baby things , diapers or food. For many people waiting for the cherished words “you are pregnant” or two lines on a test, such moments cause tears and sadness. Recently, I saw such a woman in a store when I was buying baby socks, cereals and other small things. I just caught her eye and she turned away embarrassed. I remembered how I also wanted to choose these cute little things when we were just planning and waiting, but pregnancy did not occur. How can a woman realize her desire and need to give her baby what she wants, when the baby is not yet on the horizon? And then at the checkout, I received an answer. The cashier offered to buy little things that they were sending to an orphanage. Well, of course, because there are homes for little ones, unfortunately. There are refuseniks. There are young mothers who find themselves in difficult circumstances. There are such help centers that are waiting for any support. I often suggest women to do charity work and help needy and straitened mothers, to help children be born, to give others the opportunity to plunge into the care that you can share right now. You really want to buy these pants , diapers, nappies, socks... Go to the nearest children's store, buy everything you really want, what you like, what you would be happy to give to your baby. Touch and look at children's toys, pacifiers, creams, wipes, whatever you want. Take out that happiness and joy, that deferred love, and share it with all your heart. Take all this wealth to the nearest help center, or give it to a lonely mother in your home, find the baby's home closest to you. Even in the most children's world, things and toys are often collected for charitable purposes. Start the process of living this happiness, you will definitely like it. This is not spending, this is opening your heart in order to learn to give love and learn to accept it into your life. To open doors and opportunities for the emergence of new life. To give means to have a gift that can be shared. Let this game be the impetus that triggers the processes of relationships between you, those who are expecting pregnancy and those who have already come or are about to come into this world. It will be great if you plunge into this game together with your partner. And perhaps with your psychologist. I will be glad to join and support you on this path. Be happy, reveal your gift and give gifts. Maybe your gift is already on the way. Author: Natalya Chuikova, when copying text, a link to the source is required. Consultation by appointment on the website b17.ru or +79514624024 (Viber, WhatsApp), VK page. In April, 10% of my income for consultations will be sent to the Bereg Center for the Protection of Family, Motherhood and Childhood. You can join and support the project.