From the author: December 2012 Over the past couple of years, everyone who is not too lazy has started talking about femininity. Schools of women's wisdom, methods of awakening the Goddess, and so on were opened. And tired of loneliness, missing a strong shoulder, the ladies rushed to master the science of female enhancement. But they didn’t take into account that they still needed to integrate this unusual femininity with their usual way of life, with views and principles. Otherwise, rejection occurs, as with a transplanted organ with a foreign blood type. I don’t want to scare you, but it’s true. Few of you are actually ready (not as a joke and not for half an hour) to give up your existing independence, freedom of choice, active life position (your favorite item on your resume), which is a truly feminine state. Although you can say whatever you want. The facts show that this is so. You will understand this, just look honestly into your soul. Real thoughts and deeds When I started talking about this with several friends, women who are successful in social realization, including those who occupy leadership positions (some of them have a family and children at the same time), the topic evoked a strong response. Here is Maria L.’s comment: “Femininity = refusal of independence, freedom of choice, active life position? No, I don’t believe it, and this is precisely why I treat “women’s” trainings in quotes ironically.” Indeed, you are already a mature, established personality, and you cannot remove words from a song, just as you cannot take away its core, structure, skeleton from an established character. .. And it’s stupid to refuse someone who works, is wealthy, and brings joy and success. But to add fresh meat and new features, please. Because both the skeleton and the meat are equally important parts of the body. Tatyana E. gave a very valuable insight: “When I started conducting women’s trainings, I was sure that if you teach a woman to be a Woman: gentle, caring, soft, then all her problems will be solved.” will decide on their own. But now I understand for sure that it is much more important to teach a woman to be Happy in the situation in which she finds herself, and she will decide for herself whether to become more tender and softer. And in general, for Happy women everything works out spontaneously and harmoniously in their favor. Even if, from the point of view of fashion trends, it doesn’t look like happiness.” Golden words! Personal choice and following YOUR desires are the key to the secret of happiness. I often tell you about them, some take it, others No. Everyone has their own choice. Create your own fairy tale of life, you yourself, we are just beacons on the way... This material is included in the book “Femininity in the Rhythm of the City,” which can be downloaded for free and personally see the techniques and methods I have tested. With love, Lyudmila Alipatova "Change. Act. Win!" PS More than 1000 people have already received the book. You can download it for free here - http://alipatova.ru/book (copy the link and paste it into your browser). Please send your comments and thoughts after reading. Thank you in advance.