4. In kindergarten, a child learns to be independent and quickly acquires service skills. Parents often notice that when a child arrives at kindergarten, he immediately begins to eat, undress and dress, go to the toilet, and wash himself. This is precisely a consequence of the physical separation of the child from the mother, who, from birth, gets used to doing almost everything for the child and cannot in time transfer to him responsibility for what he is already quite capable of doing himself. In kindergarten, children suddenly have the opportunity to learn new skills from each other, which they use “to the fullest.” This is where the moment of competition comes in: “I can do this better than you.” - I got dressed the fastest! - I ate everything! - I can do this too! Can you do it like I do??