Choose one of 5 verbal characteristics of your child. Honestly. For myself. The child is the center of all my interests. I do everything for the child. I devote myself entirely to the child, protecting him from all difficulties and dangers. I don’t want to have a child the way he is. I dream that my child will become better than me. Unfortunately, I devote too little time to him. I have absolutely no time to raise my child. Interpretation. Now let's see what violation in raising children is reflected by the number of the characteristic you have chosen. Family idol. Your child is your personal Sun, you revolve around him. In the future, you will be faced with his selfishness, inflated self-esteem and confidence that “everyone owes him.” He will learn to take, but not to give, and, what is saddest, he will never appreciate your sacrifice! Hyperprotection. Your child is a house flower that may die without you. By overly controlling his life and thereby limiting his activity, your child does not gain his own life experience. He will not know which actions are reasonable and which are not, what can be done and what should be avoided. Do you really want to “raise” your child until he is old? Emotional rejection. Your child is that same Cinderella, rejected and unaccepted. Since your child does not receive enough love, affection, and protection, he can achieve his mother’s praise and love through exemplary behavior and success in activities. But in this case, fear arises: “If I behave badly, they will not love me.” In the future, your child will become an anxious adult, giving up in the face of difficulties. Are you ready for this? Increased moral responsibility. Your child is a little warrior. He knows well the requirements that he must fulfill, but knows almost nothing about parental attention and care. In the future, he himself will begin to suppress or will be dependent and submissive. Is this how you want to see your child? Hypoguardianship. Your child is a small adult. With a lack of your attention, he has already learned to solve all his problems himself. Your unclear rules or vague requirements deprive your child of solid support and a sense of security. In the future, he will solve many personal problems that could have been avoided in childhood, increase his low self-esteem, and try to understand himself and others. Not the best result of upbringing, isn't it??