From the author: This article was written by me for Boss-life Magazine. You met a wonderful girl and now you have to consolidate the good impression from the acquaintance with a good date. At the beginning, both of you try to take a better look at each other and, at the same time, like each other. How you behave at the first meetings determines whether there will be a continuation. Let us remind you of the mistakes that should be avoided at the first stage of your relationship: 1. Insincerity. Of course, there is a huge temptation to give the impression of a real macho, and often the line between reality and vast fantasy is blurred. But, still, you should not try to portray qualities that are not inherent to you. Moreover, why start a relationship with deception, because this threatens further disappointment. It is much better to learn how to skillfully emphasize your real advantages, which everyone has. And if you really suit each other, the girl will certainly appreciate these advantages. So, the most important rule is to be yourself.2. Being late. The way the world works is that a girl is not late for a date, but is delayed. She has hundreds of reasons for this, all it takes is to get herself in order. Well, if a guy allows himself to arrive later than the appointed time, he automatically ends up on the list of ill-mannered and frivolous men. And in this case, the girl’s logic is simple - if he cannot manage his time, it is too early to build a relationship.3. Lack of initiative. If you invite a girl on a date, then the choice of place should be yours. Any woman will be disappointed in her companion if from the very beginning he does not know where to spend time together, but decides to rely entirely on the girl’s choice. It has long been believed that a man should take the initiative in this situation. And if he is not ready for this, then he is not ready for a relationship with a girl.4. Talk about your loved one. On first dates, it is important to talk about yourself, without going too far. If you spend the whole evening in such narratives, the girl will definitely think that all you are capable of is chatter and posing. It’s best to divide half of the conversation into stories about yourself, and build the other half on questions to the girl, thanks to which you could get to know your chosen one better. Ask the girl about how she likes to spend her time, how her relationship with her parents is, and whether she likes to travel. If you build a conversation with a girl according to this scheme and show attention to the personality of your companion, then by the end of the evening there will be a very warm and relaxed atmosphere between you.5. Memories of exes. I think you understand that this is not a good topic for first meetings. But if the girl herself begins to dig too deeply, it is better not to go into details of her personal life before meeting her, and say that you do not support the old relationship and everything is in the past. If this is not enough and she still continues to insist on clarifying the circumstances on the first date, think about whether you need a girl scout?6. Intimate details. Talking on a first date about, say, preferred positions during sex is like praising your favorite tequila during an interview. There is no need to rush things, otherwise the girl may get the impression that your intentions are not serious. Of course, a lot also depends on the woman; if she herself makes obvious hints of a sexual nature, then why not pick up this topic, but silently conclude that you are in the company of a rather open young lady. 7. Discussion of problems. If you have unresolved problems, it is not at all necessary to share them on the first date with a girl. It is unlikely that she will be able to solve them immediately, but there will definitely be one more, because the atmosphere of the evening will suffer. Therefore, if you want to hear advice and feel the support of your chosen one, you should wait a little. Don’t forget that the purpose of first dates is to arouse your partner’s interest and sympathy for you. you'll have to a little.