From the author: S-theoryTraining company PartnerThe right to “be” underlies any type of character and is constantly a topic of speculation and trading in personal relationships. In a normal development, this right acquires the function of the highest point of pleasure. It is not for nothing that at the peak of pleasure a person experiencing this state has a cry-thought: “I am alive!” Violation of this right can lead to two outcomes. With the first option of a violated right, a person falls into a complete stupor, which can even lead him to suicide. Children with a pronounced violation of this right cannot develop further in the world we are familiar with, and if they survive, they often become completely inadequate. By closing in on themselves, they create their own world. Such manifestations include autism and states of detachment from the world and other people, for example, skating. In the second development of events, with the right to “be” violated, an inferiority complex, unworthiness of life and a desire to prove to everyone that “I am!” may form. At a later time, these outputs, with a weakened manifestation, can take the form of a submissive, desperate victim in the first case and a dominant aggressor in the second..