When I studied at the university, I had a classmate from a very rich family. It always had branded things on it, and everyone liked it to consider it, stylish and beautiful 🤩, during her studies, she married a rich man 👰🏻 materffas and studied not for the sake of a profession, but because it was supposed to have a diploma in their family About higher education. She did not plan to work. I did not meet her behind the cashier-market store, in the most ordinary clothing. Yesterday she lived her chic life, and today everything has changed not at all for the better. And it's not the absence of branded things. She didn’t look happy either☹️ I don’t know the reasons for such radical changes, but the meeting made me think about how many women are completely dependent on husbands who have little in common in terms of reliability with a stone wall 👤 I have different situations. We live in an abundant, but very unstable world. My classmate could during this time build a gorgeous career and secure a life itself, which is accustomed to that, my favorite work is not only earning money, this is recognition and self -realization. Conditions can take shape in the most unexpected way, and the support will help you stay afloat in any conditions. It can be both in the form of passive income and a financial airbag, and in the form of a demanded profession. The ideal option is all together, the best option is when we are completely dependent on others. At the same time, in fact, we all start with a stage of complete dependence, because in childhood we cannot provide ourselves on our own. Someone remains on it all the time of study, and someone longer. However, you are in an dependent position not only when your parents or partner provide you, but also when you spend more than you earn. For example, you use microloans or borrowing from friends to make ends meet. In any case, you rely on someone or something to cover your expenses. Think about how to take care of yourself if there will be no one besides you. #Psychology #Psychologist #Self -realization