Female blind spot after the birth of a child of the wrong gender. A woman walks for 9 months in the hope of pleasing her husband’s family and giving birth to an heir. She is all waiting for her son. But a girl is born... Mom's reaction: - Oh well, I don't care who, the main thing is that it's mine. In this homogenization of gender and all the same - indifference, the girl will then have to live. Two reactions of the child’s psyche: 1. She can accept that such an attitude is love, but then find such indifference and simultaneous appropriation, thinking that this is love. The more indifferent a man is to her, the more intrusively it will seem that he loves me, all the signs that at the moment of birth were called love coincide. The man will begin to leave, abandon, but at his words: “I need you, you are mine, I don’t love you, but you are mine!” - Key signal markers are triggered. 2. She can isolate herself in a capsule, unconsciously creating boundaries through which the pain from such treatment is not very noticeable and then live as an orphan with living parents, not feeling the love of her parents, she does not penetrate this film - I don’t care who. Cold and loneliness, not understanding why they called you, why they gave birth, why live at all? In both cases, the mother lives without really noticing or seeing the child. The daughter is experiencing a vacuum and there is little consultation between the child and the child about what is bought, offered, and chosen for the child. The child begins to behave in such a way that she at least somehow notices, and more often than not, instead of a careful, calm consideration - who did I give birth to, the mother can remain in her trauma, that she is not a son, horror, she is bad for her husband’s relatives and for her husband, and be cold, harsh, hitting a child. Again, not noticing the force of the blows. And if such a girl, when she grows up, tells her mother that she didn’t notice her, didn’t perceive her, didn’t see her, didn’t understand her, yelled at her and beat her. The mother will answer that this did not happen, that the girl made it all up. From the dictionary of LOVE Feminine 1. A feeling of selfless, heartfelt affection. “L. to the homeland” 2. Tendency, addiction to something. "L. to music" In my opinion, terrible definitions of slavery and dedication, attachment and addiction.eprst.by