It is very important to be able to take care of yourself! For a woman, this is twice as important! I hear a lot of sad stories about how a woman has neither the time, nor the energy, nor the money to “get herself in order”: get a manicure, pedicure, go for a massage or to the hairdresser, or, finally, start playing sports, buy a new dress... And this list goes on and on. I am very deeply concerned about this issue and for this reason I decided to figure out for myself the reasons for the lack of proper self-care. And so, let’s take it in order:) It’s no secret that some women consider having food in the house, a couple of T-shirts, one “going out dress”, one “dress” shoes as “proper” care for themselves... Well, you understand what I mean. By the way, I once bought myself some high-heeled, open-toe, suede shoes, very beautiful and laconic. I was happy!!!! So, my neighbor appreciated the shoes (the neighbor was an adult woman who considered herself a smart woman), but she was extremely surprised that they were suede - it’s not practical! So, they say, if you get on a minibus, someone will step on your foot and ruin your shoes! “And in general,” she told me, “these are “dress” shoes!” Yes, of course, we can say that there is some common sense in her words, but I think that in fact this is not “common sense” at all, but simply her personal life experience of survival, namely survival. Why am I telling all this ? Moreover, unfortunately, many women grew up in conditions of survival. And it is precisely for this reason that such concepts as “ceremonial shoes”, “going out dress”, “celebratory service” appeared... Do you recognize these words? I don’t know about you, but I heard them very often in my childhood. Why do I say “survival conditions”? The point is that there is a huge difference in the consciousness of “abundance” and in the consciousness of “survival”. Why is it so important for us to understand this difference? I personally answer this question for myself this way: survival is fear, compression, sadness, sadness, irritation, and abundance is relaxation, joy, pleasure, love. Is this what you choose to experience? I am abundance! Of course, I agree that everyone’s material capabilities are different, but... In order to style your hair beautifully on a day off, wear a dress that you like in (you can wear an apron on top if you are worried, for example , get your dress dirty), let your beautiful eyes down a lot of money and time don’t need! You need self-love, a desire to take care of yourself and an understanding that this is exactly the case - “if not me, then who?” A woman who loves herself attracts a man, circumstances and all possible blessings of the Universe - they simply reciprocate her ! They simply mirror her attitude towards you! I suggest that you introduce something into your life every day that truly makes you happy, let it be new beautiful kitchen counters or allow yourself to eat your dinners from the “guest” service :) Make a list your joys! When you write it, I think that you will quickly discover the fact that a lot of “joys” can be obtained completely free of charge! Dear women, I invite you to think seriously about the topic of self-care. After all, only by knowing how to love and care for ourselves can we truly love and care for someone else. I will be very glad if you share your conclusions, reflections and changes with me in the comments under this article! Be happy!