Why not tell the truth about your infidelity and be honest with your partner? “For me, it would be more honest to tell my wife that I don’t love her. And leave with God for another. But I can’t tell the truth.” And really, why don’t those who cheat first tell the truth to their partner, and with a clear conscience don’t go into another relationship? Yes, they simply cannot be honest. First of all, to yourself. Cheating is about avoidance or preservation. When a person lies, he either wants to avoid something. Or, on the contrary, preserve it. Avoid quarrels, anger, conflicts, claims, conversations about what is not satisfactory in a relationship, in sex. Or maintain a relationship with an important person with whom something is missing in the relationship. But for now there is no way to make up for this only through a lover/tsu. With which they make up for the deficit. Or he/she still cannot decide with whom he/she has what feelings and does not want to lose anyone yet. I agree that the way to cope with one’s internal problems was chosen, to put it mildly, “unsuccessful”. The second person suffers in him. But this is his method. And someone really sincerely suffers from choosing this method. But some don’t. This method suits him. But in fact, he doesn’t even want to look into it to face his experiences. And he hides from himself, sitting on two chairs at the same time. Maintaining a relationship with a mistress/lover is always easier than with a legal partner. Because in such a relationship between them there is everything except responsibility. Responsibility for relationships. In a love relationship, they live here and now, without thinking about the future, about the consequences, about future plans, etc. But the person who cheats has great difficulties with responsibility. Something like this happened in childhood, where should he show this responsibility were not allowed. Shamed, for example. Or “they knew what was best for him.” Or another option, they were punished for expressing desires. They rejected it. But the desires remained! I had to lie to satisfy them. At the same time, avoiding explanations of why he decided to do this. It’s not so simple with betrayal... And betrayal is not only about sex! Men’s infidelity is discussed a lot. And a lot of things are known about them. But what can serve as a reason for female infidelity? Why can a woman decide to take such a step? Your Psychologist-Sexologist Ekaterina Ivanova You can make an appointment with me for a consultation, including with the issue of dealing with infidelity or cravings for infidelity, by calling the phone number below in any messenger convenient for you👇☎️+79191191791