From the author: Today I came across another article on the topic “How hard it is to live without emotions!” This usually applies to men. Well, it seems like women are so emotional, they are in touch with their emotions, but men are not. Therefore, men achieve great career success, but have difficulty building relationships. Therefore, the task of women is to save poor, unfortunate men, otherwise without emotions they will wither away completely! Today I came across another article on the topic “How hard it is to live without emotions!” This usually applies to men. Well, it seems like women are so emotional, they are in touch with their emotions, but men are not. Therefore, men achieve great career success, but have difficulty building relationships. Therefore, the task of women is to save poor, unfortunate men, otherwise without emotions they will wither away completely! Firstly, in fact this is not true. According to research, among people for whom logic prevails over emotions - 60% are men and 40% are women. That is, we can talk about a certain trend, but not about a pattern. Another thing is that girls are encouraged to show emotions (unlike boys), so purely outwardly women really look “more emotional.” Secondly, if you don’t see your partner showing emotions, this doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have them . It just means YOU CAN'T SEE THEM. Absolutely every person has emotions. It’s just that some people express them by jumping up to the ceiling or banging their heads on the wall, while others express them by barely noticeable movements of the edges of their lips. This is neither good nor bad, it just is. Therefore, some advice for those sufferers whose partner “does not know how to express their emotions”: 1. Remember: he HAS EMOTIONS and he EXPRESSES them - in a way that is organic and comfortable for him personally.2. He has NO PROBLEM with expressing emotions. There is no need to save him, train him, liberate him - everything is fine with him as it is. This is bad for you - you miss his emotions. This is your problem, not his.3. What to do? Work with YOUR PERCEPTION of his way of expressing emotions. It’s you who want to see them, feel them, empathize with them. This is your joke and your quest.4. There is no need to load it with MULTILAYER DISCUSSIONS on the topic “how do you feel now?” It is difficult, incomprehensible and not interesting to him. About the same as you - talking about quantum mechanics or political economy.5. If you DO NOT have enough emotions and their discussion, there are emotional girlfriends, emotional talk shows and emotional melodramas for this. And most importantly, perhaps. Remember - the ability to PERCEIVE OTHERS' EMOTIONS is no less important than expressing your own. Develop empathy, the ability to sympathize and co-experience. This is much more productive than raping a partner with your “emotionally rich” world. Original article on my website.