Mom is the most beloved person, for a child under 3 years old - the whole world. Mom must love and accept me, mom will always be with me. But then something starts to happen, and mom stops being nice, sometimes scolds, and the world becomes not so safe for the son. For a child, the process of growing up is complex and incomprehensible, and our task as adults is to help him cope with it. And learn to notice that we ourselves grow and mature together with the baby. The recently cute smiley face suddenly turns into a demanding crying monster, and we don’t understand how to calm him down. First, calm down yourself. And understand that at the moment he wants to express his Self. And if these attempts are suppressed, then as a result we will be dealing with an undeveloped personality. Key questions: what do you want? - the most important thing here is to really try to understand what the baby wants (especially if he doesn’t speak). Translating the question into a semantic level: I want to help you, I’m with you. And then, if the child wants something that cannot be easily obtained, be sure to explain in a playful way that he cannot get what he wants. For example, a child wants to touch the toys on the Christmas tree in the shopping center, and take some with him. You play out a situation in which this cannot be achieved and explain (only after the game) that this is impossible. In this way, you teach the child that there are rules. The most important thing when explaining any rules to a baby is the confidence that he is loved and that he is heard. Because a dry “no” sounds offensive and rude (agree, adults :)). Another key question with different options is What do you think? It would seem, why ask him if he doesn’t speak. He doesn't speak, yes, but he thinks, hears and observes. And the direct question in his direction reads like this: my opinion matters. This is psychology, it is deep, and if we talk about physics, then neurons begin to work in your baby’s brain, and by this you provoke the development of his intelligence. Well, the third thing for today is developmental classes. No matter how talented and conscious parents you are, first of all you are not a teacher, you are the most beloved parent, the whole world. And your most important task is to love. Learning to trust a child means allowing him to develop in a team. It is important to trust your baby. He grows, develops, and will not always remain a sweet charmer. It seems to me that children are given to us so that we ourselves develop and grow every moment of our lives..