From the author: psychotherapist, sexologist, expert on television programs, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, master of NLP, educational psychologist, specialist in existential neuroprogramming, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coachContinued...I became to further analyze her problematic state as a psychotherapist, psychologist and sexologist, and asked: “Who do you feel like when what’s happening is happening?” And she answered, “I’m a sucker, I feel like a sucker when it comes to sex.” Then her long-standing relationship came out, which broke up, and seemed to have already been forgotten. The guy she dated for a couple of years, and who then found someone else, constantly criticized the girl. He considered her too thin, was dissatisfied with her figure, said that she was “like a log” and that she did not turn him on. This was one of the foundations of her problematic condition. It was worth seeing what the “sucker” looked like, who lived his own life in the client and spoiled her sex. This was her identity, the girl saw herself in rags. I continued my work as a psychotherapist, psychologist and sexologist to replace a negative image with a positive one through submodal editing. And the girl changed. Her image became the way she would like to see herself. I helped the client get rid of a negative state in order to change. A funny situation arose when I told her: “give away what is worth ridding yourself of.” I often use a method that allows me to quickly remove a client’s negative state, which I basically came up with myself, so as not to drag a person out of one problem at a time, wasting a lot of time. This is well suited when the problems are of the same type, and there are many of them, which allows you not to drag out one situation at a time, but to take them all together. I call this: collecting all the problems in a bag and pulling them out of yourself. The client said: “yes, I collected it.” And I asked: what is it to make sure that the client took the action, getting rid of what he needed. She replied: “I gave away a bag of small members.” She summed up the psychotherapeutic work done and the positive changes achieved with a new belief that will now live in her and help her make the right choice: “From now on, all my men will be of normal size. I now correspond to such men both externally and internally"