Why is everything in life so difficult? How nice it would be to sit on the couch, travel or play on the computer, sleep as much as you want and not worry about anything. Relationships, money, achievements and all kinds of well-being - just extend your hand, everything is right there. Many people sincerely believe that it shouldn’t be difficult for them, that they shouldn’t be tired, that everything should work out, that any undertaking should be doomed to success, etc. This all breaks down into reality, in which nothing is wrong. We get tired, burn out, get nervous, worry, fail, fall, get up, make mistakes, experience crises. Experience shows us that money does not fall from the sky, and relationships are most often not built the first time. You can continue: a psychologist does not help from the first meeting, one investment of money will not make you rich, one laconic explanation may not be enough to solve the problem. We can say that we live in some kind of myth and think that everything should be easy and simple, that there is no need to strain (and we don’t want to). And if reality suddenly does not meet our expectations, we become capricious and give something like hysterical reactions. For example: a psychologist says that he will have to work with this topic, but he will not tell the client what to do - “oh no, please give me the answer and there is no need to complicate things for me here.” Or you opened a business / applied for an interesting vacancy / gave a speech / built relationships - failed - “oh, that’s it.” The myth seems to promise us everything at once, on the first try, without errors or failures. But reality shows that everyone makes mistakes, that it can be difficult and sometimes I have to give up momentary comfort for the sake of something more important to me, but not now, but in the future. Difficulties in life are normal, it’s true that it’s not easy for us and sometimes situations happen that we want to experience in a curled up position in a blanket. We can predict something with varying degrees of probability, but in general it is important to develop resistance to difficulties and failures. And remember that not everything is easy the first time, no one can give us guarantees and you play the main role in your life, and your own well-being is worth trying for..