If nothing happens in life, does that mean there's something wrong with you? I know how many people are terribly afraid to stop in their race with life. Plans, affairs, meetings, worries 24/7 - everything is important, significant, necessary. Who needs it? - I want to ask. But more on that later, that’s not the point. Anything, just not to be alone with yourself. It’s as if a black hole opens right away, so it’s better to run, hurry, get ahead. Here’s a simple example. Talk. How often do you rush to interrupt your interlocutor and say your 2 cents? What is ruling you at this moment? Needless to say, behind this race lies anxiety and hundreds of suppressed real desires. How wildly scary it is to simply remain silent. Feel the silence. This is not only in conversation - in everything. Stay. Just be present. Knowing how to pause is a skill, and in modern life it is almost an art. A pause in conversation, in relationships, in career and in life. Is it easy to live through this pause while maintaining self-esteem, a sense of correctness, and trusting? Don't fall into your insecurity and insufficiency. And just be. You know, this kind of total letitbism (don’t think about it, it’s from the English let it be - let it be). People often run away from themselves, just so as not to look into their own black hole. And it really is turbulent. The main mantra at this moment: everything happens as it should, and this is right for me, and at this moment I am right for myself and for this world. Perhaps this is the only thing really worth doing at such a moment. Stick to your sense of self - confident, calm, careful. And then another horizon of events opens up, when the main fear of your life turns out to be a resource for your freedom and ease. If nothing happens in life, then it is at this time that life happens to you. Life comes from a deep sense of your confidence and understanding of a simple answer to a difficult question: who am I and what is my essence. If you want to touch this - my author’s program “I also exist. I have the right.” Three weeks of individual work. Having lived this experience, you will become yourself. All questions in private messages. Special thanks for the birth of this post to my wonderful client, whose name, naturally, will remain hidden within the framework of confidentiality. The dialogue turned out to be heartfelt, it can’t be left just between us.