We choose our men. We women. And we decide how everything will be arranged in our family. Only ourselves. No one else bears any responsibility for this. And if something is wrong with our relationships, with our family, then we wanted it that way. Sometimes we have some kind of secondary benefit, sometimes we “sold our soul to the devil” for some kind of pampering, “well, but he’s handsome, or well, but he’s obedient (there are tons of options), well, but he quickly married me, well, for the sake of he doesn’t need to lose weight, etc.”If we don’t choose this kind of life (the one you’re thinking about now) with a specific man like that, it means we either don’t end up with such a man, or at the moment when the spell has broken , pack your suitcase and run away. The man next to you is the one, and exactly the man you chose. No one awarded it to you in court. Your free will. And we, women, also decide how it will be in the family. We believe that it is right that when a man opens the door for us, we affectionately say to him, at the very beginning of the relationship, “darling, I so dreamed that I would finally have my own, the strongest man in the world, who would protect me and even opening doors, it’s so romantic”)) (the text is free, every woman has her own) Or a woman dreams of never carrying heavy bags from stores, calmly, with a smile, gently, affectionately, she says to a man at the dawn of a relationship (at the dawn of a relationship, and not when he, a long-married man, lay down on the sofa) ... at the dawn of the relationship, she says “our dad always went to the store, it’s so right, it seems to me, and mom cooked very tasty” (this text makes sense to say if your man respects your father, and you cook like a goddess. Otherwise, the text should be something else. But the point is that a woman, not a man, thinks about the structure of the family, and she sets a certain bar. By the way, they really like it when a woman speaks clearly and tells him specifically how everything will be with them. And a man is even more pleased when he fulfills the “demands” of his wife, and she sincerely rejoices at his actions and generously thanks him for it. I don’t know if you believe it, but there is no happier and more satisfied with the life of a man who knows for sure, is certainly sure, that he made his woman happy.