It's time to admit the main thing - women most often feel bad when they put themselves in a box. It’s cramped there and you can’t breathe. When you communicate with men only according to the “rules”. And they don’t study these rules in order to know how to break them and feel free1) To interest men, you must be inaccessible to men. You cannot immediately respond in correspondence - you have to wait 20 minutes. Natural inaccessibility arises when you direct attention to your ENTIRE personal life. This includes work, education, health, family, money, girlfriends, books, entertainment, training, hobbies. And in such a story, a girl will never hang on a man’s neck and will not be intrusive. Because just a man is only part of life, but not her whole life. You can even write first, you can express your curiosity about a man. Otherwise, how will he understand that he is welcome? Everyone wants reciprocity. Everyone wants to be where they are welcome. And this is about healthy relationships. Everyone is pleased that they think about him and remember him. Expressing feelings for a man is not weakness. There can be no good relationship without mutual interest2) You have to be with a twist, a riddle, not to say anything, to be incomprehensible. It is impossible to be a “bun without raisins” when inside there is a cauldron of plans, desires, thirst for something new. When you choose what you like. And you refuse what is not interesting. It is impossible to tell everything about yourself at once, and you don’t want to have personal boundaries. The life path of every girl is filled with ups and downs, joys and troubles. This creates its unique appearance and character. You cannot remain primitive and empty when every day you gain new experiences and overcome difficulties. When you change jobs, professions, even when you go to new cafes, buy unusual clothes, you can also answer directly and improve mutual understanding in a couple. Thus, reduce anxiety in relationships, know each other’s weak points and not poke them with sharp objects_______________________________________ Rules and frameworks are a guarantee of tension, constraint, lack of freedom, playfulness, illusion of safety and control. It is important to know the RATIONALE for these rules of communication and relationships in order to customize them for yourself https: //taplink.cc/nale_psyhttps://t.me/NaLe_psyhttps://vk.com/id24535025https://www.youtube.com/@levanina/