Men and women view marriage differently. If a representative of the stronger sex can have a close relationship with a friend or friends for years and feel great without the bonds of marriage, then a girl, having met a person she likes, after a few dates begins to choose the style of a wedding dress and imagine her future family life. Different attitudes to marriage There are many reasons why men avoid family ties. Some are afraid of losing their freedom, some cannot make a choice, starting more and more new relationships. There is a type of men who avoid marriage for reasons of principle. They are comfortable without a spouse, they do not want home-cooked dinners, laundry and cleaning. Representatives of the stronger sex who have achieved material well-being are wary of marriage swindlers. It seems to them that women are after their money, and not for them. If for most men cohabitation does not cause any moral or physical inconvenience, then for almost every girl a wedding is the most important stage in the development of relationships. The role of a cohabitant for a woman is not only unprofitable, but and humiliating. Often, because of their beliefs in the necessity of marriage, women strive to drag a man into the registry office at all costs, not paying attention to the qualities of the chosen one. But in order for family relationships to develop harmoniously, both partners must be ready for marriage. Even if a man does not directly say that he does not want to get married, there are certain signs that clearly indicate that the person next to you is not at all the person with whom you should connect your life. How to understand that a man is not ready to get married Take a closer look at your companion: He is not able to make important decisions. If, having reached a certain age, a man is not able to decide how to build a career, does not know how to manage money and solve everyday problems, he is not ready to take responsibility for his wife and future children .Every girl wants to have a reliable partner nearby, standing firmly on her own two feet, wanting to succeed in work, build her own home, and provide for the future of her children. If your potential groom thinks only about pleasure and meeting his needs, you should not connect your life with him. It is unlikely that the ring on his finger and the Mendelssohn march will change his position in life. When talking about the future, he does not mention you. Your chosen one is making plans for the future: for example, he is going to go to Spain in the summer or is collecting money to buy a home. But at the same time, you are in his grandiose there are no plans. He doesn't say "we", he keeps repeating "I". Or, intending to move permanently to another city, he does not ask what you think about it. If at the same time he is never interested in your plans for the future, this is a bad sign. This means that he does not even mentally connect his fate with yours. He does not know how to resolve conflict situations. Of course, family life is not without disagreements and even scandals. The main thing is to be able to deal with them correctly. A mature person will not avoid discussing a problem, keep silent about it, or pointlessly shout and insult. In case of any disagreement, it is necessary to talk, come to a common opinion or make concessions. He does not want to meet his girlfriend’s relatives. If a guy is trying with all his might to avoid meeting your parents, this is a bad sign. Most likely, he does not see them as his future relatives and does not consider it necessary to impress them. He does not want to make large joint purchases. This applies to those couples who already live together. If a man refuses to buy a large item for the house using common funds, it means that he does not represent your future together. In this case, he clearly distributes who buys what with their money: for example, “I buy a sofa, and you buy a table.”».